Tag Archives: Crying Is How We Heal

60 Days Ago I Lost My Son Zayne…

60 Days Ago I Lost My Son Zayne… Today is April 8th. 60 days ago I lost my son Zayne. While I am crying as I write this article, know that today is much easier than March 8th was. That … Continue reading

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Today I Saw a Grief Counselor

Today I Saw a Grief Counselor Today I went and saw a grief counselor. Got to practice what you preach. Very helpful visit. The counselor talked to me about trauma and grieving. I know about grieving. I did not know … Continue reading

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The Two Word Dedication – For Zayne

The Two Word Dedication – For Zayne Zayne’s passing on February 8th, took the wind out of me and I ended up needing to take a break from writing my third book – Portland Coffee Stories and Donut Tales . Tonight – … Continue reading

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Let The Crying Happen

Let The Crying Happen Going through my emails this morning – Friday March 11th,  I came across this email (see photo below). This email was was sent to me the morning after my Son Zayne passed. It triggered quite a … Continue reading

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I Have Very Tough News To Share – February 9th, 2016 2:33 AM

I Have Very Tough News To Share – February 9th, 2016 2:33 AM The last Facebook post I made that brutal night was this one — “I have very tough news to share. Tonight – February 8, 2016 my 17 … Continue reading

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About

About My name is Steven Shomler and on February 8th ,2016 my 17 year old son Zayne Steven Shomler passed away and I began a brutal grieving journey. This website will chronicle my grieving journey and it will serve as … Continue reading

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