Tag Archives: Zayne Shomler

60 Days Ago I Lost My Son Zayne…

60 Days Ago I Lost My Son Zayne… Today is April 8th. 60 days ago I lost my son Zayne. While I am crying as I write this article, know that today is much easier than March 8th was. That … Continue reading

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Then This Song Came on The Radio

Then This Song Came on The Radio When you are grieving you will have things that trigger your pain and it will likely not be convenient and that grieving will hurt… I had a great dinner with a friend tonight … Continue reading

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Coffee, Tears, and Peeps

Coffee, Tears, and Peeps This morning I choose the black mug. I love cool looking coffee mugs. Happy ones that make me smile and bring me joy. When Zayne passed away I could not bring myself to drink coffee out … Continue reading

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The Two Word Dedication – For Zayne

The Two Word Dedication – For Zayne Zayne’s passing on February 8th, took the wind out of me and I ended up needing to take a break from writing my third book – Portland Coffee Stories and Donut Tales . Tonight – … Continue reading

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Let The Crying Happen

Let The Crying Happen Going through my emails this morning – Friday March 11th,  I came across this email (see photo below). This email was was sent to me the morning after my Son Zayne passed. It triggered quite a … Continue reading

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I Have Very Tough News To Share – February 9th, 2016 2:33 AM

I Have Very Tough News To Share – February 9th, 2016 2:33 AM The last Facebook post I made that brutal night was this one — “I have very tough news to share. Tonight – February 8, 2016 my 17 … Continue reading

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I Updated My Facebook Profile Photo Feb 9th, 2016 1:41 AM

I Updated My Facebook Profile Photo Feb 9th 1:41 AM First I updated my Facebook cover photo, then I updated my Facebook profile photo to a photo of  Zayne and his older brother Zac. This photo was taken the night … Continue reading

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I Updated My Facebook Cover Photo Feb 9th, 2016 1:38 AM

I Updated my Facebook Cover Photo Feb 9th, 2016  1:38 AM My 17 year old son Zayne passed away the evening of Feb 8th, 2016. Later that evening I realized that for me, sharing this tragic news on Facebook would … Continue reading

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About

About My name is Steven Shomler and on February 8th ,2016 my 17 year old son Zayne Steven Shomler passed away and I began a brutal grieving journey. This website will chronicle my grieving journey and it will serve as … Continue reading

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